I need to know you think we can talk in codes. Talking to someone saying one thing even though we speakin?

You haven't figured out the code yet. We all have grown up using terms that others don't understand and another knows exactly what they mean. You knew about the extra-mayo or at least that was what your mind went to. When in doubt ask! Stop trying to figure it all out because in the end, it means nothing. Why don't you learn to speak "pig Latin"? That was what my Mom and Dad spoke so us kids wouldn't understand but they underestimated me and I figured it out very quickly! As far as songs as well as poetry, much of it is street talk that only their friends can understand. It is a code of "honor" for these people.