I need to make a choice ASAP, need yr help. Serious answers only, pls.?

Is there any reason to believe that you will spend the rest of your life with your new boyfriend? You obviously have forgotten a certain promise you made that said 'forsaking all others til death do us part' . If you go back on that promise, then you can not convince anyone, yourself included, that you intend to live your life with honor. Without honor, you will spend your final days looking back and feeling guilty about the poor choices you made in life. Do not let this be one of them. Your husband has agreed to keep his promise, and not throw your cheating into the street, so you should show the same respect, and keep your promise to your husband. Get rid of the on-line lover, who doesn't know the real you anyway if you are lying to him, and stay home with your devoted husband.